September 24th, 2007

I have cybersex all the time. Sometimes it’s to research people’s sex language. Sometimes it’s to research people’s sexual taste. Sometimes it’s to research how people orgasm online. But rarely–okay, basically never–is it for my own enjoyment.

So a strange thing happened the other day when I tried cybering with my fiancĂ©. Normally I cyber with people I don’t know in real life, since they make more objective subjects. But in this case, I wasn’t studying my partner; I was studying me. I was working on a Click Me about techniques for one-handed typing, and I needed to see if I could masturbate while keeping up a decent conversation–something I honestly haven’t attempted in earnest for probably a decade. If I was planning on actually masturbating, I figured I might as well have good cybersex, instead of the interesting but often un-sexy research kind.

The thing is, I discovered, I don’t really know what makes good cybersex for me. That is, what I get off on. I’ve spent so much time playing along and observing, my own cybersex tastes haven’t developed. Suddenly, in the midst of doing something I do every day with someone I’m sexual with every day, I felt like a total newb. It’s not that the result was bad; I was still able to test out those techniques. It’s just that I never expected to feel so awkward when it comes to my own cyber desires.

What does this mean? More recreational cybersex, of course! Also, I’ve come to the decision that I watch far too much bad porn. Anyone got sites they particularly enjoy? I’m all for making more porn buddies. Good porn and cybersex for everyone!

Tags: Bonnie life, cybersex

4 Responses to “My Own Personal Cybersex Cherry”

  1. Cybersexy Says:

    I don’t know how much roleplaying you do during cyber, but that’s what makes it fun.

    Also, think about what your sexual fantasies are. Roleplay them. Live them through cyber. THAT is what makes cyber fun!

    For the most complete collection of free porn stories on the internet, try http://www.asstr.org. ;)

  2. Bonnie Ruberg Says:

    Hmm, unfortunately I would argue that it’s not only the content of the fantasies but the quality of the execution that makes things fun :).

    Now I’m off to read porn stories…

  3. Cybersexy Says:

    “Quality of execution” is subjective. What works for one person may not work for someone else.

  4. Bunny Says:

    Good porn?

    Got to be suicide girls… it IS all women, but it’s actually pretty good porn, overall. There is very little het-porn of any decent quality out there…

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