Comments on: Ask Me Questions about Cybersex!

By: Jade Reporting » August 5

Jade Reporting » August 5 — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 06:37:29 +0000

[...] Ask Me Questions about Cybersex! [...]

By: rob

rob — Sat, 18 Aug 2007 09:26:57 +0000

i think cyber sex is pro and you shood cyber with me at footballjock60@hotmail.com cyber with me and send pics if you want

By: Bonnie Ruberg

Bonnie Ruberg — Wed, 15 Aug 2007 14:02:42 +0000

True, true. Although the piece I’m writing this week for Click Me does involve some pretty imaginative cam use :). Me personally, I agree with you. What’s sexy for me about cybersex is the imaginative, writerly part, not the naked bits.

By: Cybersexy

Cybersexy — Wed, 15 Aug 2007 11:39:16 +0000

I am soooooo against webcams! As soon as a guy asks “got a webcam?”, I instantly know the cybersex with him will be less than stellar. How? Because he has no imagination.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not averse to using game mechanics (such as poseballs in SL) to spice up the cybersex. But webcams take you away from the imaginative aspect of cybersex, and plop you down in reality. If I want real sex, I have a husband for that. ;)

By: Klyde Evans

Klyde Evans — Sun, 12 Aug 2007 04:31:33 +0000

Anne, do you think you could hook me up with that Mountain Dew jacking off over a sandwich? That sounds like heavy lulz

By: Bonnie Ruberg

Bonnie Ruberg — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 14:38:33 +0000

That's actually a very good question, Cray, and one I'm always looking for better answers to. As a start, I would suggest checking out this week's "Click Me," which is about how (if not where) to pick up good cybersex partners. In the overall, it can be a pretty frustrating process, but hopefully talking/writing about cybersex will help raise the standard across the board!

By: Cray

Cray — Sun, 05 Aug 2007 20:17:32 +0000

OK, here’s a serious question. What if you are picky? What if you’re not into the “lolers” and “aslers” (you know what I mean), and are actually looking for someone intelligent who knows how to type, and more importantly, realizes the importance of being detailed and descriptive?

In the past five years, I can say I have only had two such experiences. Is there some sort of a norm for this thing? A “go to” place? A way to get in touch with people with these similar interests without having to give my credit card number to a gazillion match-making websites?

After all, cybering is about getting online, doing your thing, and then getting back off and returning to the real world. I don’t think I would ever actually spend money to actively search for a partner.

You’ve probably been asked this question a ton of times before, and I apologize for that. I’ll try harder to come up with something a little deeper the next time. ;)

By: Anne Packrat

Anne Packrat — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 17:34:53 +0000

Oh, I’m sure some of it is turn-on stuff, especially the Duck Tales and other furry stuff I found. I’m not one to judge though, since I write pornographic fanfic. ^^;;

By: Bonnie Ruberg

Bonnie Ruberg — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 14:31:55 +0000

People often draw it just for the lulz.
That’s true–and in this case comforting :). That brings us back around to sex as comical vs. sexy, something we’ve talked about at Heroine Sheik before. Then again, what’s even weirder (sorry, don’t mean to judge: what seems even more socially unusual :) is when people write/draw like that for actual, turns-me-on, sexual purposes. Like Link and Midna sex: there’s plenty of that out there. I mean, I guess she is pretty cute for an imp, but still…

As for Thomas looking surprised and scared, I can totally see that :).

By: Anne Packrat

Anne Packrat — Wed, 01 Aug 2007 20:14:24 +0000

They’re mostly fan drawn. The Thomas the Tank Engine one is just a photoshopped image of them so that they look like they’re humping and Thomas has kind of a surprised / scared expression on his face. People often draw it just for the lulz, if you’re excuse the term.